Booking a dominant session for the first time--or even the first time with a new provider--might be intimidating. Nothing could be further from the truth, however keep in mind some simple preparation and common curtesy will soon have you living out some of your deepest fantasies.
These days there are so many ways to contact a professional: phone, text, email, Skype, Twitter, FaceBook and more. Keep in mind, no matter what form you use, the same rules apply. Dommes are busy people and a message that is simply "Hi," or doesn't have any information, will go to the bottom of the pile and maybe not answered at all. Respectful messages where we don't have to drag information out of you will be the priority.
So what do you need? Simple:
Introduce yourself. It sounds simple, but many do not and we want to know with whom we are speaking. A slave name is fine, but a name is important.
State your interests. None of us are here to cheat you. We want to know if we are compatible. If you are looking for something we don't provide, we won't waste your time, nor do we want our time wasted. Easy.
Time and duration of appointment. Again we are busy. If you don't know your schedule, you will fall to the back of the que until you do. Also, if you say, "Can I see you in 20 minutes?" you will probably miss out to someone who had the foresight to book with notice.
Questions you might ask:
Approximate location. Travel time should be considered. For discretion more exact locations will be withheld until appointments are firm and confirmed.
Outfits and equipment. We will usually let you know when you state your interests.
Costs. It's not cheap. If it seems like to good of a deal it's probably a scam. No reputable domme is going to make repeat trips in a nice location for less than she can make at home.
No-No's:
We are busy. We're not going to hang out and chat with a stranger. Repeated texts/calls/ect will end up with you blocked.
Excessive details about a potential session. This is a major no-no on many points. If you want to discuss the details, you might be required to do a Cam/Voice consultation, which is for a fee. If you are not comfortable seeing the provider without excessive discussion and are not willing to pay an consult fee, then maybe you are not ready to see a professional dominant.
Discussing personal slavery before you've met. Unless you have amazing references no one is going to outright say they want a personal slave out of a total stranger. A domme who readily agrees that you will DEFINITELY be a personal after the session, might be scamming you. It only comes about after a proven track record.
Do not ask for vanilla sexual services or nudity for nudity's sake. These are not services provided.
DO NOT try to haggle the price. It's insulting and embarrassing to everyone involved. If you can't afford it, save up for the next time.
So You've Booked
You will be expected to confirm at least once, and maybe twice before your arrival. This is for safety and discretion. Also it is important to be timely or at least call if you are running late. 15-20 minutes past your scheduled appointment with no contact could mean there is no longer time for it and could mean a loss of your deposit.
Consider your travel and arrival to the appointment as a part of your servitude to the Domina. Be clean, respectful and FOLLOW DIRECTIONS EXACTLY. We aren't making these orders up just because. There is usually a very good reason we have our procedures and not following them exactly causes problems and may put your dominant in a bad/frustrated mood. No one wants that.
Follow these simple guidelines and you are all set for some kinky fun!
